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You’re having sex. Tick. But it feels a bit… meh. If it’s starting to feel like something to get through rather than enjoy, you’re not alone. Here’s why it happens - and how to feel present, connected, and turned on again.
I was sent an unsolicited dick pic at 5:33am. What followed wasn’t just anger, it was a flood of stories from women who’ve quietly shut down. This isn’t about offence. It’s about safety, consent, and why so many women disconnect from pleasure.
Your pleasure is yours… right? So why do some women stop masturbating when their solo time turns into someone else’s fantasy or interrogation? Let’s talk about sexual autonomy, curiosity, and why pleasure sometimes needs privacy.
A surprising moment at a sex party taught me something important about sexual confidence, consent, and boundaries. Because true empowerment isn’t about always getting what you want - it’s about respecting when someone says no.

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